Obsequiousness isn’t meekness. Meekness isn’t obsequiousness.
The vices opposed to humility are,
- pride: by reason of defect, and
- a too great obsequiousness or abjection of oneself, which would be an excess of humility. This might easily be derogatory to a man’s office or holy character; or it might serve only to pamper pride in others, by unworthy flattery, which would occasion their sins of tyranny, arbitrariness, and arrogance.
The virtue of humility may not be practised in any external way which would occasion such vices or acts in others.
Source: New Advent: Catholic Encyclopedia: Humility. Last accessed 21 March 17.
Meekness isn’t letting people walk all over you, as shown in another blog post (Meek in Greek).
Sometimes you have to be strong. Stand tall, defiant. Until we begin to rediscover what humility actually is, we’re going to be in for a lot of headaches. We’re called to be just, not necessarily nice.